忏悔录 Confessions | BookⅣ Chapter8 友谊的慰藉

BookⅣ Chapter8

友谊的慰藉

Times lose no time; nor do they roll idly by; through our senses they work strange operations on the mind. Behold, they went and came day by day, and by coming and going, introduced into my mind other imaginations and other remembrances; and little by little patched me up again with my old kind of delights, unto which that my sorrow gave way. And yet there succeeded, not indeed other griefs, yet the causes of other griefs. For whence had that former grief so easily reached my very inmost soul, but that I had poured out my soul upon the dust, in loving one that must die, as if he would never die?

时间并不闲着，并非无所事事的悠然而逝：通过我们的感觉，时间在我们心中进行着令人惊奇的工作。时间一天又一天的来来去去，在它来时去时，把新的希望、新的回忆注入我心中，逐渐恢复我旧时的寻欢作乐，迫使痛苦撤退；但替代的虽不是新的痛苦，却是造成新痛苦的因素。何以这痛苦能轻易地深入我内心呢？原因是由于我爱上一个要死亡的人，好像他不会死亡一样，这是把我的灵魂洒在沙滩上。

For what restored and refreshed me chiefly was the solaces of other friends, with whom I did love, what instead of Thee I loved; and this was a great fable, and protracted lie, by whose adulterous stimulus, our soul, which lay itching in our ears, was being defiled. But that fable would not die to me, so often as any of my friends died. There were other things which in them did more take my mind; to talk and jest together, to do kind offices by turns; to read together honied books; to play the fool or be earnest together; to dissent at times without discontent, as a man might with his own self; and even with the seldomness of these dissentings, to season our more frequent consentings; sometimes to teach, and sometimes learn; long for the absent with impatience; and welcome the coming with joy. These and the like expressions, proceeding out of the hearts of those that loved and were loved again, by the countenance, the tongue, the eyes, and a thousand pleasing gestures, were so much fuel to melt our souls together, and out of many make but one.

这时最能恢复我的生气的，是其他朋友们给我的安慰，我和他们一起都爱着我当时所奉为真神的一连串神话和荒渺之言，我们这颗痒痒的心，用这些邪僻的东西来搔爬着，让它们腐蚀我们的心灵。一个朋友能死去，神话却不会死。此外，在那些朋友身上还有更能吸引我的东西：大家谈论，嬉笑，彼此善意的亲昵，共同阅读有趣的书籍，彼此玩笑，彼此体贴，有时意见不合，却不会生出仇恨，正似人们对待自身一样；而且偶然的意见不同，反能增加经常意见一致的韵味；我们个个是老师，也个个是学生；有人缺席，便一心挂念着，而欢迎他的回来：所有以上种种，以及其他类似的情形都出于心心相印，而流露于谈吐顾盼之间，流露于千万种亲厚挚热的情款；这一切正似熔炉的燃料，把许多人的心灵融而为一。

This is it that is loved in friends; and so loved, that a man's conscience condemns itself, if he love not him that loves him again, or love not again him that loves him, looking for nothing from his person but indications of his love. Hence that mourning, if one die, and darkenings of sorrows, that steeping of the heart in tears, all sweetness turned to bitterness; and upon the loss of life of the dying, the death of the living.

朋友之间彼此相爱便是如此，甚至可以到达这样的程度：如果对朋友不以爱还爱，会觉得良心的谴责；对朋友只要求善意的表示。因此，一个朋友死去，便会伤心，蒙上痛苦的阴影，甜蜜变成辛酸，心灵完全沉浸在泪水中，死者的丧失生命，恍如生者的死亡。

Blessed who so loveth Thee, and his friend in Thee, and his enemy for Thee. For he alone loses none dear to him, to whom all are dear in Him who cannot be lost. And who is this but our God, the God that made heaven and earth, and filleth them, because by filling them He created them? Thee none loseth, but who leaveth. And who leaveth Thee, whither goeth or whither fleeth he, but from Thee well-pleased, to Thee displeased? For where doth he not find Thy law in his own punishment? And Thy law is truth, and truth Thou.

谁爱你，在你爱朋之中，为你而爱仇人，这样的人真是幸福！一人能在你身上泛爱众人，既然不会丧失你，也不会丧失所爱的人；除了你、我们的上帝，创造天地并充塞天地，充塞天地而创造天地的上帝外，能有不会丧失的东西吗？没有一人能丧失你，除非他离弃你，而离弃了你能走往哪里，能逃住哪里去呢？不过是离弃了慈祥的你，走向愤怒的你。在你的惩罚的范围中那里能避得开你的法律？“你的法律即是真理”，而“真理即是你”。[13]