如何不拖拉,不磨蹭,愉快又高效的写作业(1)
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文 / 大淘小乖妈
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当! 妈!太!难!
看娃写作业简直是天底下最磨练人的工作!
没!有!之!一!
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请听题:请问上面这张20秒钟的动图里(非静止画面),淘淘做了几道口算题?
正确答案:一道都没做。
这速度真的让老母亲干着急。
这样的非静止画面持续38秒钟后,他回头发现了我在录像,回过神来总算做了一道题。
哎,仰天长叹……带娃不易!![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibM33yyh5tVic7TlL5fXibxBnibfBcCuibjm46DS1TNkIHPAV01HWXd6q2fg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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有我坐在身边镇妖,还能这样。
在学校得啥样?![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibJHzXLUwZFEfj9DxyOPBADyTcpSe132z5BeiaFvBvVdGzaiaasLiclib0DQ_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我猜,淘在学校应该就像上面这位小朋友一样吧。
我怎么知道的?
看橡皮我就知道……
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淘小时候我也被幼儿园老师约谈过,为啥?
不听老师讲绘本。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibzLQt7ibnqr885AqPoJKGBWEOVu1kTDJr11z7KX204vNasVkZlibT0O9A_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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但我不觉得这是个问题,可能他不感兴趣吧,以为大点就好了。
淘是那种在玩游戏、搭乐高、看闲书上精神很集中的孩子。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibgUKall9HiaicYcVNka5zEibmDeJn5oCia9ErtBrohHMFYkqCzevfOXjlxw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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上学以后发现,听讲还行,像听故事似的,津津有味的。
可一到写作业立马就不行了。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibJlQrZ9DBXN6esuo45fxDKy13175Niciafy8aeoZibC25LPiae33ab85P3Q_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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上一篇写到了上小学之前,怎么拯救“坐不住星人”?
别急,容我慢慢盘他……![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPnibcCzLM9jm89zv0PiasG8kgnldficS9wBibicbByaygKglNV1P19TAm2su2t0BB9IqcLaF9mWicoauLKHA_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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时不时也给你们透露一下我的“武林秘籍”最新进展。
来来来,准备好小本本!![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibocXxrzvRERiaPxYr2uROnMV01qa2RBt0tVzIFmfx4uniadicnn6z5mmmg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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降低难度
咱们就接着开头的事儿说说口算题。
你说他不爱写字,不愿做口算题?
可他总是偷偷做小乖的公文式和逻辑狗。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibzLQt7ibnqr885AqPoJKGBWEOVu1kTDJr11z7KX204vNasVkZlibT0O9A_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我给弟弟买的书准备做上半个月的,淘淘偷偷摸摸半个小时全给写完了,还是擦不掉的彩笔,二胎家庭的银子啊。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gib1adI43oy112O32n4NiatibrJq4MI0XNts4Ja4OdgzaqTydAURfMLibqjA_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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这到底是为啥?直到一位心理学教授告诉我:
不专心是结果,不是原因。
孩子不专心是因为他的能力和难度不匹配。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gib3icDkna2X44llabPrAQfQiczRQc2iaG9HhEZYp2Tc8HJvhzicZKpv5hicmQ_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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如果孩子的能力没有达到学习内容应该匹配的难度,他总是做起来很吃力,就更不愿意做,显得不专心。
原来他自己在主动降低难度。
简单!刷刷刷~美!100分,我全会!
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可总不能让他退回去上幼儿园吧?!
换个思路想,如果他具备了三年级的能力,再去学一年级的内容,可能真的就能一路无敌。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibvJmcyEU2SbU7Iibm2Xib6TKypuwERJdR1bRBxWojyo73PsYuLGnKftcw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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说干就干,提升他的学习能力!
不过他欠缺的到底是什么能力呢?
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你懂吗?视觉注意力和听觉注意力
寻找答案的过程中,对我最有启发的是一位心理学华侨教授做的讲座。
讲座中提到:
人通过什么渠道学习?
在课堂学习中嗅觉、味觉、触觉其实不太常用了,最常用的就是视觉和听觉。
就像两个主要的管道,每个人都有自己优势的管道。
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心理学概念太复杂,咱也听不懂,简单粗暴把专家的话整理一下。
视觉注意力就是视力吗?NO!NO!NO!
视觉注意力主管最基本的绘图、拼图、写字、理解、逻辑、加减法。
听觉注意力更不是听力。
视觉注意力主管背诵、看电视、乘除法、唱歌、听讲。
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这么对应着想,淘在背诵、乘除法、唱歌、听讲等方面确实能力足够。
在写字、理解、加减法等方面又确实费力。
你也对照一下?你家娃是什么型?
我分析淘淘可能是明显的听觉型,或者说他的视觉能力不够。
他听完西游记可以给姥姥讲上半个多小时,红孩儿坐的莲花宝座上的什么剑,哪吒三太子脚踩的什么轮……姥姥都不忍心打断他;![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibooicm9c33QPIGX6zTqAoPPVGvhW6VJ124cLlG87Cic64GFM9yf5V2SicA_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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上课的时候他可以靠听讲记住老师是怎么讲的这道题,当然还有答案。
这属性,就是一台复读机。
可复读机不会编辑啊,自己写,自己做的时候就乱码了。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0giboB0aqBNywa6nS6NKhBibTVKHnH3mWqQE8Zasa09fDtR15UR1H4NQDDw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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提高专注力的一些小技巧
提高“能力”怎么可能一两天见效?一两年还差不多。
当务之急咱得先保证每天完成作业吧。
套路娃我还是有点小妙招的,嘿嘿!![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibqHvgLz5uh5lh6vZCbqswOxzA63RFiagmPPmXUhwSqZ2NneTVViahSKiag_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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一提家庭作业,我得跟你好好吐吐槽,淘简直逼我渐进式地放大招。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibZiaZnxCia2YJB2fOGKiadtg7OM3hfJu79XBWhPvntBzkWjr76LnTGtXwg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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第一阶段:模糊任务
“去复习一下生字”
效果:完全等于0。
等我觉得时间差不多了,去问他复习的怎么样的时候,人家坐在语文书前,懵懂地看着我:“怎么复习啊?”
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第二阶段:具体任务
“生字写2遍”
更具体点儿,今天学的生字写2遍,写在田格本上。
免得他不懂得怎么复习,怎么预习。
但是效果是拖到该吃饭了他还没写。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibcXDQicXdXiblhYlbjNBHSxiaTTeXpsqjCdRK1CfHCrQvia8HmRcB4MlN4w_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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没有时间概念的作业就是没作业。
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第三阶段:具体任务具体时间
“18:00到18:15把今天学的生字写2遍,写在田格本上”
效果:可以执行,但是仍然需要我在18点前就开始提醒。
“快到点了,提前做好准备,找到本子和书,喝点水……”![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibkcqT7KRaSEibBwa9C5u81ibx90QWeiae2U5rpEaO9AJOGzsWFMrBLbyDQ_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我都觉得我自己好烦。
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第四阶段:具体任务具体时间具体结果
“18:00-18:15把今天的生字写2遍,写在田格本上,如果按时完成,而且写得好看的字超过10个,明天生字可以只写1遍。”
效果:按时完成,质量好。
当他得意洋洋地给我给我拿过来检查的时候,好像一个在推销商品的推销员。
“妈妈,你看我这个字写得好吧?我这个横没有向下歪呢。”![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibScbd72EFic7IawIymvibGnD8wdQ272f57W7h2UxJueHTPc3vZomfZj2Q_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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只要态度好,老母亲矮子里面拔将军,也得拔出至少10个写得好的,以资鼓励。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibWuibWWOzONQXSTACvH5DHtqxkStcdozPJKsQIb7KQYE4SqO48miaic3Cg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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如果真的没认真,这字都飞上了天,那就愿赌服输吧。
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计时器是个好东西。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibWuibWWOzONQXSTACvH5DHtqxkStcdozPJKsQIb7KQYE4SqO48miaic3Cg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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只要眼神一瞄到计时器飞速跑动的数字,淘就知道抓紧时间,从四仰八叉的葛优瘫调整为闷头苦干模式。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibgUKall9HiaicYcVNka5zEibmDeJn5oCia9ErtBrohHMFYkqCzevfOXjlxw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我一般会留出一点点走神的时间,再加上他正常应该完成的时间,倒计时给他。
毕竟一口吃不了个胖子,让他一秒钟都不分神,现在还做不到。
如果他确实抓紧,顺利完成任务他也开心。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gib2WsFeszCfVrhx1ohHzHQkJGrGtmOHAqRSlOyqarDGVWNBorllcssxg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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不过,后来他跟我耍心眼,他会自己偷偷暂停。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gib0EyZB9NLibhFO3dViaQpa2wiaWZ26jVGT0SiaG9LffeDgrMD8nJicS3MXFw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我揭穿他又不太好,不揭穿他我又不甘心。
我们就改用计划表和其它方式的代替了。
tip:为了帮助熊孩子,有些技巧也是要常换常新。
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多说一句,番茄工作法和番茄时钟很多人都在用,但我个人觉得更适合大人。
淘的学习时间长短不一。
简单的口算5分钟,写生字15分钟完成,一篇作文可能预留30分钟完成,这个需要大人规划好。
如果用番茄,规规矩矩的25分钟,有点不好分割。
假如时间到了还没完成,我们会先停止,进行休息或下一项任务,这样保证一个良好的节奏感。
所以最好用一个有正计时和倒计时功能的计时器。其实它比番茄时钟还便宜。
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帝都的妈妈们都花三五千买高级学习桌,但所有来过我家的妈妈看到我家淘的桌子,都感叹“你太有才了!”后悔地直拍大腿。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibx5fffyZ2iaxMbSdHiaicx34iclwoeHeQZktKaJQ2kB17CDImdYb40WtmHg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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刚上学的时候,淘没有自己的桌子,在姥姥房间的大桌子上写作业,我们在厨房或客厅忙。
到时间了一看,俩字“后悔”!
自己为啥就没写完呢,我也跟着生气,气到头疼。
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为了他这无数次的后悔,更为了我的乳腺增生。
我买了一套跟学校一模一样的桌椅,淘放学就在客厅学习。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibIiaBkno2jm3GeV6bZ4kK2LpmGTnHW4L33vbQCIqEyO1qwNMO3NPfp7Q_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我们过来过去偶尔撇一眼他,抠鼻子、揉眼睛、愣神的情况确实有所收敛。
这感觉有点像我开车路过有摄像头或者交警的地方,虽然没犯错,还是会有点儿紧张感吧。
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减肥的口号是什么来着?
“管住嘴,迈开腿!”
熊孩子学习正相反,“张开嘴,管住腿!”![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibiaHaF6j9PFlBAVQUFXSQzM1lCAxWKJk5IE17da0WPDSByHCic5Iyrp1Q_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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针对淘的情况,每天放学后的安排不是刷题,而是读。
读课文、读英语书、讲数学题,都需要动嘴。就连口算和做题,我都要求他读出声来。
读好处可太大了,一是让他提高学习效率,能尽快把知识学到手。
二是这种眼、口、脑高度协调练习,对于提高他的专注力是非常有用的,这个问题我们后面会再提到。
一开始,他噘着嘴很不情愿,觉得这个事儿太麻烦,读出来还磕磕巴巴他很不开心。
老母亲的法宝是什么来着?对,温柔地坚持,他也只能照办。
现在他已经读得又快又准了,有时候读课文还能声情并茂地调动自己的语气。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibWuibWWOzONQXSTACvH5DHtqxkStcdozPJKsQIb7KQYE4SqO48miaic3Cg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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读完课外读物,还能跟我讨论里面提到的稀奇古怪的变色龙。
虽然老娘并不喜欢那玩意儿。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibA4RmvibBgX5mrmjaToUbm9fgR41RspXjQOHtr6GJ1jULYtiaqBgCjR6w_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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另外,英语指读还解决了光听声不看词的老毛病。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibbqUBlNK0tHNx4VITXeUgBQ90M4icgfWYxib8QP9t2LQK3SUq0SibZRFpQ_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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就连做题我都要求他读题,读式子,读答话。
声音确实能叫醒他的大脑,这样做虽然比自己只做题要累,但是题读得更有重点,思考地更严谨,不走神做题效率和正确率都高了。
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加强手眼脑协调练习
上面那些小技巧大多只能解一时的问题,咱们根本还是得补充欠缺的能力。
我翻了翻市面上很多适合小孩子的训练视觉注意力的练习题,主要是下面这些类型。
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视觉追踪
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视觉分辨
这些迷宫题、连线题、找不同……淘小时候都做过。
什么左右脑开发、Usborne的全脑益智总动员,我觉得淘还是应该基本合格的。
问题究竟出在哪了呢?
手眼脑协调能力。
学习不单单是视觉,而是需要眼、口、手、脑的全面配合,如果我们的身体不能一起配合好,只有每个渠道接受的信息是独立分散的,学习效果就很差了。
我们上一篇里说过球类运动大大地好啊。
哪个球都得手眼脑并用,但这些更多的是大肌肉练习。
淘淘的小肌肉练习不够充分,精细动作比较弱,再加上眼睛观察不到位,导致他写字速度慢,正确率低,写得还难看,成了“写字困难户”。
有一次写完作文交作业,大队委不收,说他写得太难看了,回家把他气哭了鼻子。我是又生气又心疼。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibtbXibPox5pqYyPWicic00rk5hgd1L2iaRQo2icBFMPz0phz6rrxt0WFI60Q_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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所以我给他每周安排了一次画画课,一个学期就已经有了明显的进步,周末在家仿绘、折纸、编织、缝扣子、做手工,就连盛粥、倒醋、削苹果、刷碗这样的活儿以后都留给他来。
手笨怎么办,多练呗。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibgUKall9HiaicYcVNka5zEibmDeJn5oCia9ErtBrohHMFYkqCzevfOXjlxw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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当然最根本的,写字慢,那就多写,缺啥补啥。
疫情期间一年级寒假,回姥姥家也没带什么书,谁想到放了个史无前例的超长寒假。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibkDGVTAsPUwEgsoYaZGic1hVHstDRvzcWBaLGxKLlWI8aTmxTT8dgVLA_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我把几本都是基础字的灰太狼与喜洋洋、经典童话翻出来,让他抄。
姥姥极力反对:“字还没学几个,你就让他抄书,写出来还不都是错的?”![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibkxLp5ibXH0C3Ny41rG9CYYqfMvXEj4Eu9ftFgicPLntB34k3Ftib34RYA_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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我真是顶住姥姥的白眼儿,每天让他抄一小段。
二三十个字他可能要抄三四十分钟,看一个字写一个字。
不过收获也是立竿见影的。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibWuibWWOzONQXSTACvH5DHtqxkStcdozPJKsQIb7KQYE4SqO48miaic3Cg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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一开始标点符号全无,“的地得”抄都能全抄成这个“的”、自然段不分段。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gib8vKfQNmNq19GteUoI1ZfOpdaSxB0KdSrg1Q5MR3fDA1MCvDlicdqovA_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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后来好不容易想起来分段了,还分错了,只空两格不回车。
老母亲压根也没想到会有这种错误。
真是“不写不知道,世界真奇妙。”![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPnibcCzLM9jm89zv0PiasG8kgnAfhON6kHQl9BIibibFRupXCD4pueiclyVaM38Xg5EvePcY66gaAYNuKrQ_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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疫情期间我隔空批改淘淘抄写的小蝌蚪找妈妈
也就是说“手眼脑协调”还是有进步的。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPnic1qrUq4TibYB1HbVkYbTytLAE8EqLPp2yHUtrribbK50vkzSHXoaAAmIJtfpPCiayFtVEKVNoRiaBLXg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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很多人推荐我练习专注力用舒尔特方格,说效果不错,但我觉得好像不够系统。
后来终于发现了一套适合大孩子的“注意力训练”类的书。
这套书分为4个阶段,每阶段30天,家长用书和学生用书需要配合使用。
每天的题都不重复,但都涵盖了静心训练、视觉追踪、听觉集中、视觉分辨、听觉转移、视觉集中六种类型。
开学以后每天都做肯定没时间,我们都是周末的时候拿出来做一次,这个过程很像闯关游戏,淘很喜欢。
等下次寒暑假,我打算按天给他做一做。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibBV7Fo0a3K76nV6zNzOZR2Oq6XvatKDgHFtbwMhHmIgawp8gFoHXiaVg_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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这套书的最大的优点是很多题动用了“听+写”、“听+说”、“视+数数”、“视+写字”这种综合能力,正是我想找的练习。
有一次我给淘读听觉测试题。
这道题要求“先听后说”,把听到的话原封不动地复述出来,不能有错,句子从短变长,看能坚持到第几句。
姥姥在旁边房间听着我俩这么热闹来了兴趣,她和淘一起比赛,最后俩人都止步第6句,居然还笑出了眼泪。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibIiaBkno2jm3GeV6bZ4kK2LpmGTnHW4L33vbQCIqEyO1qwNMO3NPfp7Q_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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这书还真是老少皆宜得锻炼大脑,全家都可以当游戏比一比,玩一玩。
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第一册中的题目,你可以试试
说了这么多,也不知道能不能帮得上你家的娃。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gibzLQt7ibnqr885AqPoJKGBWEOVu1kTDJr11z7KX204vNasVkZlibT0O9A_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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毕竟我也在摸索阶段,虽然我能看到他进步,但革命尚未成功,同志仍需努力。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPn90icLosRpdnzaFzzFmNd0gib7CIn51UW4ND9JKVa4uV9ia2fKHSwFzgXooLzQE2KmfBotGKVhmDk55g_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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最后告诉你一个最重要的法则,生气一次老三年,养娃随缘。
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福利:我最后提到的那套书?
抱歉,有点贵了我送不起。![](//static.careerengine.us/api/aov2/https%3A_%7C__%7C_mmbiz.qpic.cn_%7C_mmbiz_png_%7C_XZEsjPGkPnic1qrUq4TibYB1HbVkYbTytLIjohiap4YvZicLKpZ5jXDhaXycb6e2fwFByicqnVnTPhRiaLOdYCa3myqw_%7C_640%3Fwx_fmt%3Dpng.jpg)
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不过可以给你一些舒尔特方格,有数字、有古诗、还有随机表格。
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欢迎大家关注我的公号“大淘小乖成长记“ 👇
在我公号后台留言“舒尔特方格”就能得到它。
你的转发是我继续写下去的动力哦~
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