艾伦佩吉做客艾伦秀谈出柜:我知道,我会成为一个更开心的人!(附视频&对话稿)
英语演讲视频,第一时间观看
看过《盗梦空间》、《朱诺》等片的人想必对艾伦佩吉并不陌生,2018年,艾伦佩吉结婚让人再次看到同性恋也是真爱的,只不过是个人的喜好观念不同而已,艾伦佩吉与女友结婚亦是十分的激动的,在社交网站上晒出与女友手戴戒指的照片,这波狗粮还真是来的猝不及防。
也就是在6年前,艾伦佩吉承认自己是女同志,很多粉丝听到艾伦佩吉出柜的消息后接受不了,有的还因此做出疯狂的举动,声称要绑架艾伦佩吉,甚至要杀了艾伦佩吉,无可奈何下艾伦佩吉只能报警了事。
今天来听一听6年前,艾伦佩吉做了出柜演讲之后,登上艾伦秀分享自己出柜后的感受。
- i saw you at the- at guy's party after the oscars, and we spoke for a little while. and i was congratulating you, because i am so proud of you for coming out, and i'm happy for you. i know what a scary thing that is. your speech was incredible. i just thought it was the most brilliantly written speech.
- thanks.
- i want to show-
- i want to show a little tiny bit of it right now.
- here i am, an actress representing, at least in some sense, an industry that places crushing standards on all of us, standards that, i hate to admit, have affected me. and i am here today because i am gay and because-
- i know how scary that is. you still get emotional?
- yeah. i can see that you're emotional just watching that. i was like that for a couple of years after i came out. it's a scary thing to verbalize, to say it out loud. how nervous were you?
- uh, the most nervous i've ever been in my life, for sure. i think my biggest fear of doing it was even just having a panic attack, quite frankly.
- but, you know, i was just so ready to do it and, quite frankly, so excited to do it, so it was a combination of just such thrill to finally be at that place in my life where i was able to do that and grateful to have that moment and grateful to you, because you did it in a time when it was much harder and much scarier. so it's doesn't feel like it at the time, but it's a very selfish thing to do. it really is just the most-
- i mean, i can speak forever on it, but how do you feel since you've done it?
- you know, i knew i would be a happier person. i knew that i was gonna feel better. and i did not anticipate just how happy i would feel. and just every aspect of my life, just an ease and a comfort. and it's--it's really been quite extraordinary to feel just the shift. it was pretty much overnight too.
- yeah, it is, because you're releasing shame. i mean, and anyone-
- it doesn't matter what it is, what you're carrying around that's your secret. everyone has something that you're carrying around that you're ashamed of. and to carry shame around is a-
- first of all, it causes disease. it's--you just can't-
- it's a horrible thing, to be ashamed of yourself.
- yes, it's toxic, and i think we talked about this a bit, where, you know, you think you're at a place where you're like, "oh, i'm happy to be gay. "i'm so comfortable being gay. i love being gay." and, honestly, it wasn't until making that choice and doing that where i realized, like, no, i was carrying a tremendous amount of shame and guilt for not being out and felt isolated from the lgbt community. and now i don't, so...
- yeah, it's--you know, i think you seem more relaxed, and i think there's something about just not having to worry about somebody catching you in a lie. i know what that's like when you're on a show and you're just--you just feel like you're waiting for someone to go, "you're gay! [laughter] i know you are!"
- yeah, yes, absolutely. it's so nice to just, you know, be at work and talk about an ex or, you know, get to wear what you want and not have a conversation about it and to feel like you're being yourself and then connect with people in the world. you know, it's so nice to have people come up to me and tell me their story or, you know, say, "hey, i'm closeted. do you have advice?" and, you know, those are really beautiful moments to get to share with people.
- yeah, yeah, and to know that you're another face that someone has hope for, 'cause there are a lot of teenagers out there-
- you talk about in your speech-
- that are getting bullied every single day or taking their own lives because they're, you know-
- they can't handle it. and so it's a really cool thing.
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