她带着老年痴呆的妈妈玩了十几个国家,其实最好的亲情是陪伴
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也许你从未发觉,
爸妈头上的白发又多了几根,
眼角的皱纹也偷偷地多了几道,
是的,他们老了,
即使我们一点也不愿意承认。
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时间是台永动机,
总是拼命地往前追赶,
从不会刻意停下来等谁,
我们能做的,
只是努力跟上它的脚步
……
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但如果哪天我们的父母像《初恋500次》的女主角那样,
每天早上醒来就把所有的过往都忘掉,
你会怎样呢?
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抱怨?
等待惊喜出现?
还是给她更多的陪伴?
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生老病死本是大自然的法则,
但羊有跪乳之恩,
鸦有反哺之情!
趁父母健在,
好好尽孝,
别让人生留下太多遗憾!
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在北京就有这样一对姐妹花安军和安荣,
为了让得痴呆症的母亲摆脱抑郁,
双双辞职带着母亲踏上了旅途。
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父亲早逝之后,
母亲靠着捡废品打零工拉扯姐弟三个,
从没离开过北京的她,
几年间
去了十几个国家,
姐妹俩推坏了5把轮椅。
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他们去的第一个地方,是泰国。
母亲第一次出国,
兴奋地手舞足蹈像个小孩子。
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后来还去了香港,
去看了母亲未患病之前,
一直念叨的紫荆花。
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这是澳门大三巴牌坊,
母亲已经站不太稳了,
需要靠轮椅才能勉强站着。
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但母亲已经对旅行上了瘾,
路上的风景让她变得开朗活泼,
有时候要落地回北京,
她宁愿在机场多呆一会儿,
也不愿回家。
就这样,
女儿们带着她一直走一直走。
台北101大楼
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第一次坐豪华游轮
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在菲律宾坐快艇
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在西太平洋上的岛国帕劳
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在巴厘岛野外体验乡间SPA
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在马尔代夫的泳池里
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还去了塞浦路斯
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旅途中老太太爱上了棉花糖
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在美国
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旅途中86岁的母亲还坐了直升飞机,
连美国的飞行员都说,
她是有史以来年纪最大的乘客。
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母亲激动地哭了。
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一路走下来,
原先憔悴消瘦的老母亲,
渐渐地脸也红润了,
笑容也灿烂了。
虽然她已经不记得去过哪些地方,
但女儿们却很欣慰,
因为一起经历过的,
都是快乐。
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安荣说:
“我不清楚老人得这个病跟人陪不陪有没有关系,
但是我感觉,
她现在的情绪在慢慢好起来。”
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但就在去年5月,
她们准备出发去法国之前,
老太太突发脑梗,
住了两个多月的院。
出院以后,
她的腿就软了,
现在基本上没法走路,
她们的旅途再也没办法继续。
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女儿们只能安慰老太太:
“比旅行更重要的,
是健健康康,
开开心心地活着。”
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直到现在,女儿还在感叹,
“我是没办法接受妈妈变老,
总觉得我还是照片当中没长大的小女孩,
而她,
还是那个没有变老的妈。”
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但时光真的很残忍不是吗?
如果说还有遗憾,
也许就是,
如果我们赚钱的速度,
能赶上父母衰老的速度,
就好了。
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