我被诊断得了脑梗，男友居然作出这样的决定….

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当我患上脑梗

男友居然作出这样的决定...

“We’d only been together for a year when I was diagnosed with a blood clot in the brain. I couldn’t work for months. I couldn’t go out. I could barely leave the house. I became completely dependent on him in every way: he provided emotional support, he ran a lot of errands, he even helped me with bills. It was a very tough time for me. I’ve always been independent. I’ve never had to rely on someone like that before. And it scared me. We hadn’t been dating for long. I thought the burden would become too much for him. So I got frustrated. I’d get pissed at little things and I’d take it out on him. But he never got rattled by it. The whole time I was afraid that my situation would become too much for him. When in reality, it was only a big deal to me.”

“当我被诊断出脑梗时，我们在一起才刚刚一年。有好几个月我都无法工作、不能外出、几乎出不了门，生活的方方面面都要依靠于他：他给了我情感支持，打理诸多杂事，甚至还要帮我付账单。对我来说那是一段很艰难的日子。我一向都很独立，从未如此这般地依赖过别人，我很害怕。我们交往的时间并不长，这给他的负担太重了。我因此深感挫败，会因为鸡毛蒜皮的小事发火，拿他撒气。但他从未翻脸。一直以来我在担心我这样的情况会对他不公。但实际上，把这当事儿的只是我自己而已。

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本期的背景音乐为《What Are Words》，演唱者是Chris Medina 。他曾是星巴克的服务员，他向相恋八年的女友求婚成功并走入婚姻殿堂，女友却遭遇车祸导致脑部重创，康复后智商相当于两岁孩子。他参加美国偶像希望获得奖金给妻子治病，最终止步于24强，但这首充满爱的歌曲却在网络上广为流传。